Connecting with the Right Company


He who walks with wise men shall be wise but a companion of fools will be destroyed. Proverbs 13:30

Written by Bob Stewart

The people you spend most of your time with will influence how your life turns out. Often circumstances are such that people end up with company that is not ideal. It is not uncommon for people to be born into a drug and crimefree atmosphere. These are situations which are beyond the control of these people. But others end up in bad company in one way or another and in this post I am going to give some examples of how one can be controlled and how others can take advantage of this.

There is a link between desires and fears. They basically feed off one another. An addict who desires drugs has the fear of not being supplied with drugs. The addict is then controlled by the supplier. In this way teenagers can be taken advantage of and are unable to severe ties with those who are abusing them.

Love or lust is another desire which has its fears. The fear is that those having this desire will lose their loved one. It is a fear that has sometimes caused others to take actions which are out of character.

The desire for security keeps people trapped in unhealthy relationships but fear of not being able to support themselves prevents them from making changes in their lives.

Teenagers are particularly vulnerable because of their desire to fit in and be part of a group. It is this desire which entices them to follow the crowd for fear of being left out.

The reason why I am saying this is to point out how people who are often the most vulnerable in society can be trapped into unsuitable circumstances. I don't buy into the argument that they have every opportunity to leave. That would be similar to telling a lame person in a wheelchair to get up and walk like everyone else.

"When sinners entice, do not consent." Proverbs 1:10

Also read Psalms 1:1-6 and Romans 12:2  2 Corin 6:17, 1 Corin 15:33

 

 

 

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